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The Gentle Art…Well…Most of the Time


Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is often romanticized as “the gentle art”—a serene battle where technique flows like water, and the smooth technician effortlessly defeats the brute. And yes, in a world of massive skill gaps, this vision of BJJ is beautiful and accurate. But let’s keep it real: when the match is evenly matched, things aren’t always so gentle.


Most of the time, you should aim to keep things relaxed and efficient. Rolling with a calm mind and body not only makes you more effective but also helps preserve your gas tank. Think of it like cruising on autopilot—you’re getting work done without unnecessary strain. This is essential for endurance, and over the course of a long roll or a match, it’s a game-changer.

But here’s the kicker: sometimes, gentle just doesn’t cut it. Whether you’re securing a submission, executing a sweep, finishing a takedown, or smashing through someone’s guard, there are moments when you need to flip the switch, grit your teeth, and go all-in.


The Art of Controlled Effort


BJJ isn’t about being relaxed all the time. It’s about knowing when to stay loose and when to ramp it up. The key is mastering the transition from a relaxed state to brief bursts of high-intensity effort. Here’s how to make it work:

  • Relax to Endure: Stay as relaxed as possible for the majority of your match. This keeps your heart rate down, your breathing steady, and your focus sharp. Efficiency is your ally in the long game.

  • Redline at the Right Time: When it’s time to secure that armbar, execute that sweep, or drive through a takedown—give it everything you’ve got. Brief bursts of maximal effort can be the difference between success and watching your opponent escape.

  • Know When to Let Go: The danger lies in staying in “redline mode” for too long. If you’re constantly tense, you’ll burn out fast. Use your strength wisely, apply it when necessary, and then return to your relaxed state as soon as possible.


The Balancing Act

Jiu-Jitsu is like a dance between two extremes: relaxation and tension. The better you can navigate between these states, the more effective you’ll be. If you’re constantly tense, you’ll be too stiff to flow and too exhausted to finish. If you’re always too relaxed, you’ll miss the opportunity to capitalize on critical moments.


Gentle…Until It’s Not

The next time someone calls Jiu-Jitsu “the gentle art,” smile and remember: it is gentle—until it’s time not to be. Mastering the art of transitioning between calm and chaos is what separates the good grapplers from the great.


So, stay relaxed, save your strength, and when the time comes to push—PUSH. Just don’t forget to come back to gentle.


Keep it smooth (but gritty when you need to), and happy rolling!

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